No holds barred: Hermien Elago opens up about mental health, childhood and the things we keep hidden

Windhoek Observer

Mental health is increasingly becoming part of Namibia’s public conversation, but for many people, the most difficult conversations remain the ones happening behind closed doors.

The latest episode of The Catalyst with Lazarus Jacobs seeks to change that.

In a deeply personal and unfiltered conversation, mental health advocate Hermien Elago sits down with host Lazarus Jacobs to discuss childhood, mental health, personal struggles and the experiences that have shaped the woman she has become.

There are no easy answers and no attempt to package difficult experiences into neat conclusions.

Instead, Elago speaks candidly about the realities that often remain hidden behind the public image people present to the world.

The conversation comes at a particularly important moment for Namibia, where concerns about mental health, suicide and the reluctance of many people, particularly men, to speak about emotional and psychological struggles are receiving increasing attention.

The Windhoek Observer recently reported on calls for men to break their silence around mental health, highlighting concerns that many Namibians continue to struggle without seeking help. The discussion has underscored an uncomfortable reality: while awareness around mental health is growing, stigma and social expectations continue to prevent many people from saying, simply, “I am not okay.”

It is within this context that Elago’s conversation on The Catalyst becomes more than another podcast interview.

It becomes an invitation to talk.

Her willingness to revisit childhood experiences and personal challenges demonstrates the importance of creating spaces where people can speak honestly about what they have experienced without fear of judgement.

For Elago, advocacy is not simply about telling others to seek help. It is also about demonstrating that vulnerability is not weakness and that acknowledging personal struggles can be part of the journey towards healing, understanding and growth.

The episode also raises a broader question for Namibian society: How many people are carrying pain that nobody knows about?

Behind successful careers, families, relationships and seemingly confident personalities can be stories of trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, insecurity or experiences that have never been properly confronted.

Too often, society rewards silence.

Men are told to be strong. Parents are expected to cope. Young people are encouraged to “move on”. And those who speak openly about their struggles can sometimes be dismissed as weak.

Conversations such as this challenge that culture.

The Catalyst is at its most powerful when it allows people to move beyond the polished versions of themselves and explore the experiences that shaped them.

Elago does precisely that.

No holds barred. No filter. Just honesty.

Her conversation with Jacobs is ultimately about courage, the courage to look back, confront uncomfortable truths and speak about the things many people would rather keep hidden.

And perhaps that is precisely the conversation Namibia needs more of.

Because breaking the silence does not mean having all the answers.

Sometimes, it simply means having the courage to speak.

The latest episode of The Catalyst with Lazarus Jacobs is available on the Windhoek Observer’s digital platforms and podcast channels.

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